Showing posts with label kids. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kids. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

A Warning: Social Networking Tied to Recent Kidnapping

May 2011

We have talked to you before about monitoring what your kids post on Facebook or check in location software like Foursquare to protect them from cyberstalking and child predators.  Well now, we have news tonight of a recent attempted kidnapping where police believe that the kid’s social networking activities made him a target.

It is a parent’s worst nightmare, your child does not come home on time or arrives home late saying someone tried to follow them home, or worse, they go missing.  This horrible scenario happened to a security experts 20 year old son.

Eugene Kaspersky is a legend in the security field.  His son Vanya, also known as “Ivan” is 20 years old and was kidnapped on his way to work.  The overall story is terrible but it has a happy ending – Ivan is alive and home safe and sound.  When police started investigating, they and his Dad, Eugene, believe that the kidnappers were tracking his son using social networking.

The kidnappers were actively using social networks, gleaning ever detail possible about their potential victims and mapping out their daily routines.  They used this information to plan their crimes, including kidnapping Ivan.

We know that sometimes young people lie about their ages online but since the age they type in is all we have to work with, conside these statistics from InsideFacebook.com:

Over 46% of Facebook users are UNDER 25

Roughly 1 in 5 of every Facebook account belongs to someone UNDER 17 years old.

OnGuardOnline.gov did a recent study and said that over 1/5 of 16-24  year olds admit they don’t know all the people they share their information with on social networks.

Here are 4 tips to start the conversation with your kid, to hopefully avoid a situation like this in your family:

TIPS TO PROTECT YOURSELF:
1. DON’T TALK TO STRANGERS:  Tell kids to assume that strangers on the internet can read posts only intended for close friends.  With that in mind, don’t post you daily routine any place online.
2. GEOCODING:  Every time your kid posts a photo with geocodes they are broadcasting where they have been which makes it easier to map out routines.
3. LOCATION CHECK IN SERVICES:  Your kids might think it is fun to be Mayor of Starbucks but talk to them about the dangers of linking their social networking and location check in services together creating a more complete picture of their routines
4. PRIVACY CHECK:  Check all settings, addresses, phone numbers, and email addresses that show on internet profiles.

Now, for our word of the week, it is:
TETWRIST:  It’s a techie term for that sore wrist you get after playing an addictive game.  The term first started when the game TETRIS first hit the cell phone gaming scene calling it a TETWRIST but now can apply to games like FruitNinja, AngryBirds, Doodle Jump and any other addictive games!

WEB RESOURCES:
To read about what happened in the Dad’s own words, go to Eugene Kaspersky’s Facebook page at:
https://www.facebook.com/notes/eugene-kaspersky/talk-to-your-children-about-privacy-in-social-networks-now/10150169499355998
www.OnGuardOnline.gov has great resources for kids and families.  They provide tips and even games to test your online know how.  A great place to start to reinforce safety lessons for kids and adults.
Kaspersky Lab has an educational program at:  http://www.kasperskyacademy.com/en/
If you want to see how social media and networks are changing the way we think, act and react, check out the infographics at:  http://www.pamorama.net/2011/01/30/65-terrific-social-media-infographics/

Friday, March 18, 2011

Guest Post - Intern Stephanie Graziano

Intern: Stephanie Graziano
Topic: Teens and young adults- implication from social networking
In a world where people have become so consumed and adapted to social networking on a daily basis, it is overlooked that a person’s shared information on these sites can be used in ways to hurt or ruin their lives, and there’s no taking it back. 

Internship Outline #1
Version 1.0
Date: 3 March 2011


SUMMARY PARAGRAPH:
·       Social Networking has become a large trend for teenagers and young adults. With these sites becoming more popular by the day, it is important to raise awareness to the sites users about the consequences that can come from sharing too much personal information with others. Each user needs to be careful about what he or she posts on their site profiles, and they need to know how to properly protect their privacy and security.


BACKGROUND
The sites, Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, and many others have morphed themselves into every teenager and young adult’s daily routine, and not always to better his or her lifestyle. Sites like these that encourage its users to upload photos and videos and share personal information with their friends and family. The problem with these applications is that this information is not always used in a positive manner. Teenagers and young adults don’t understand the consequences that come from posting personal information and how their posts can increase exposure to people that sometimes have less than friendly intentions. Social networking users need to be educated on how to better protect their security and privacy while using these sites.
The phrase that became a nightly question in everyone’s household, “It’s 10 p.m. do you know where your children are?” has now been revolutionized thanks to social networking sites. The phrase should start including the question as to whether parents know what their children doing and exactly who are their children are talking with online. Today, parents feel inferior to the Internet because it holds so much power, and with kids starting to use the Internet at such a young age, some as young as five and six, parents feel less confident in knowing what’s available on the Internet.  It is becoming more important everyday to educate parents of young teens and adults of the serious consequences that come from being an active member of social networking sites. 


STRATEGIC PLANNING ASSUMPTIONS:
·      Parents should stay educated about these different social networking sites that attract their children to the computer every day.
·      School systems around the country should educate their students as well as their public about the risks and consequences that come from sharing too much information on social networking sites.
·      School systems should hold classes or conferences for their students to better help them in providing safer profiles on their preferred site. 


ANALYSIS:
Education seems to be one of the leading ways to reduce the implications that come from teenagers and young adults using social networking without understanding the consequences. If school systems and parents focused on this issue with their teenagers, these sites could be considered much safer. Social networking has picked up within the last few years and it has certainly become a part of our nation’s everyday life with smart phones enabling these sites to be at our finger tips. With users not fully understanding how sharing too much on their profiles could affect their future, we need to be educated on the proper ways to display our information.


In the article titled, “Police detective warns about dark side of the Internet,” Detective Rebekah Lynch stated that “Over 90 percent of American teens use the Internet and 75 percent of them have cell phones. There are social networking sites such as Facebook, chat rooms, e-mail, blogs, file sharing and gaming. Predators use all these to contact and connect with your kids. The Internet is the most efficient tool ever designed for sex predators.” Lynch explained that a predator can be anyone they choose to be online, anyone that may seem appealing to others, and users may never the truth. This is a valid point that social networking users may not be contacting who they think they are. A younger user can come into contact with a stranger via social networking and that person can seem friendly and kind; but on the other side of the networking site, that younger user could be chatting with a sex offender. Lynch went on to discuss that it is vital for parents to educate the children about the dangers of social networking, and to stress to never give out information such as a telephone number or address.


IMPLICATIONS:
·      Those who talked to people they didn’t know were significantly more likely to be aged 16-24 (22% of those with a social networking page or profile) than 25-34 (7% of those with a profile).
·      17% of adult users said they talked to people on social networking sites that they didn’t know and 35% spoke to people who were “friends of friends”
·      Having too many Facebook 'friends' and access to different social capital disrupt the sharing process due to experiences of social surveillance and social control. This social control often forces younger people in particular to use conformity as a strategy when sharing content to maintain their privacy.
·      Younger and older adults display completely open public profiles without realizing it.


KEY FINDINGS
·      Taking the statistic that states that 17% of adult users of social networking don’t know other uses who they keep in contact with, I find it interesting that after the news that has been reported about the risks social networking opens, users still find it not harmful to stay in touch with strangers through the internet (On Guard Online).
·      On Guard Online states in their article that 22% of 16-24 year olds using social networking do not know who they are sharing their information with. It is that exact age range that is most at risk for facing invasion of privacy from strangers. This age group needs the education about the dangerous side effects of sharing too much.
·      The article, “Too Many Facebook 'Friends'? Content Sharing and Sociability Versus the Need for Privacy in Social Network Sites,” states many social networking users display completely open profiles and do not realize it. This is an important example of why users need to fully understand what they are signing up for. Their profiles could hold information about their personal lives which may not be beneficial to have others know.


RECOMMENDATIONS
1)    More advanced privacy settings.
a)     Using the site Facebook as an example, as of right now each user is offered to change their privacy settings to how they see fit. Meaning they can set up their profile to each one of their friends in a different way. One friend may be able to view photos, but another may only be able to view their hobbies. If Facebook were to encourage young users to have their profiles be overseen by their parents, then it may be possible for Facebook to allow anyone who is under the age of 18 to only access their Facebook profile, through their parents own profile; that way, teenagers cannot post anything on their pages without their parents’ consent or without them knowing.
2)    Help inform teenagers and young adults of the consequences that come from posting personal information and photos.
a)     Before signing up to create a profile, each user should be educated on the site about the risks they are taking if they post too much information about themselves. Educate the users on how to safely share their information, before they create their profile.
SOURCES:
1. On Guard Online, Quick Facts, September 2007
2. WkiDot, Social Media Statistics
3. Ebsco Host, “Too Many Facebook 'Friends'? Content Sharing and Sociability Versus the Need for Privacy in Social Network Sites”  [International Journal of Human-Computer Interaction]
Authors: Brandtzæg,  Petter,  Luders, Marika, Skjetne, Jan Håvard
4. “Police detective warns about dark side of the Internet”
Author:  Nikki Patrick_morningsun.net 
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Thursday, January 20, 2011

Calling all U.S.A. K-12 students - Google wants you to Doodle!

Google is hosting it's fourth "Doodle 4 Google" contest.

Kids are given the theme, "What I'd like to do someday..."

If your kid wins, the Google doodle will be on the homepage and your kid will receive a $15K scholarship AND your kid's school will win a $25K technology grant.

You have until March 2 to register.  Entries must be postmarked by March 16.

Go to:  http://www.google.com/doodle4google/ for more details.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Toys with video cameras will have consequences

New Barbie doll has a video camera and easy uploads to the internet.  Sounds like a great way to capture your daughter's tea parties and play time to send to the Grandparents, right?

The FBI issued a warning about the Barbie concerned, that in the wrong hands, the doll and or video could have disastrous consequences.

The Barbie is one of many toys on the market with built in video.  What is your reaction to this FBI warning?

Best bet is to talk to your kids about responsible video taping & home ground rules about postings on the internet.

Monday, December 6, 2010

Facebook Launches New Look and Features

If you missed the show on 60 Minutes, no worries, with the internet, you are just a click away.  I've added a link to "Part 1" of the Interview with Mark Zuckerberg.

Facebook in less than 7 years is a global phenom.

In their offices they have the word "Hack" prominently displayed.  Keep in mind that "hacking" something in the computer engineering community is a compliment.  The word has been hijacked by bad guys and their dastardly deeds on the internet.

Interesting way they approach their staff to create and launch new features:
a.  Facebook engineers stay up all night, with their CEO Zuckerberg, doing "hackathons" to practice their craft and come up with new ideas within that time frame.

b.  Another way, the engineers get tasks assigned, go to a war room, and then they get a time limit to complete everything.

Mr. Zuckerberg has launched a new layout for profiles:
1.  Old way:  you see everything posted pretty much in date/time order
     New way:  you put your bio up at the top of the page

2.  Old way:  photos could be a tab or in posts
     New way:  scrolling photos right away under your bio

3.  New:  You can list the important people in your life on the left hand side of the page

4.  New:  History of your relationship with any of your Facebook friends

5.  New:  Graphics of what is important to you

6.  New:  Sports section of the teams you like to follow

Want to update your Facebook account to the new profile look now?  Go to:
Link to upgrade to the new profile

Facebook founder, Zuckerberg, said they will not share this information with advertisers.
They do have a large inventory of interests.  However, applications on Facebook have been found to share this information.  Zuckerberg said they shut down those applications when they find out about it.

60 minutes questions how Facebook exists if it cannot invade your privacy...it's really about transparency.

The FTC is looking into it, private Privacy Groups, and the Hill are looking into it.  Facebook has hired their own lobbyist to help them with policies.

Facebook said over 200 million of their users access the application via mobile devices.

Newest product:  take your text messages, emails, and instant messages...what do you call it?  Facebook calls it "Messages" and considers it a virtual switchboard.  It is considered to be a potential email killer.

Example used in 60 Minutes:
Type "Prius" on Google and you get public information.  Type "Prius" on Facebook and you see what your friends have to say about it.

I used it to check into opinions on lego sets and other toys.

Facebook has been poaching from Google's talent base - 10% of the staff are former Google employees.





Watch the show on 60 minutes at this link:
http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=7120522n&tag=contentMain;contentAux

Friday, October 22, 2010

Facebook Falls Short When it Comes to Child Predators - Parents, you are the first line of defense

Fox News did an investigation researching how well Facebook handles and blocks child predators.
Once they completed their research, they showed 2 Facebook executives, the screens they found that show predators are getting through to kids.

The researchers found that by entering "PTHC" which is shorthand for Pre Teen Hard Core, they were shown graphic images.

There is a database of words and terms that has been created by the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children.  This database can be accessed by programs like Facebook to alert them anytime a cybercreep is using terms or words that are clearly linked to child predator activity.

The Fox News research found child pornography as well.

Facebook committed to reviewing and enhancing their filters.

This is a complex issue and you cannot make Facebook the bad guy here.

You are your kid's first line of defense.  Be active on your kid's page.  Keep their profile secure.  Monitor their wall and friends' list.

Sources:

"Facebook Falls Short In Blocking Pedophiles", Fox News, October 21, 2010.

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Please Talk to Your Kids - Cybersnooping is an invasion of privacy - It cost a young man his life this week

It was a tragic week this week for the family of a young college freshman.


A male student (Tyler Clementi) from Rutgers posted on Facebook that he was jumping off a bridge in NY.  

Why did he end his life so suddenly and tragically? 

Law enforcement thinks they know why.

Several days earlier, his roommate logged into a computer in their dorm room from another room.

He and a female student allegedly used skype to webcam in and streamed video of the gay student and another man in an intimate situation.   They took the streaming video and posted it on the internet outing Tyler.

What a tragedy for all involved.  

Do not wait, discuss this horrible tragedy with your children and young adults that you know.

Let's not lose another life over this.  We need to insure that children and young adults understand the rights to privacy.

Three Talking Points:
1.  Digital is forever
2.  Just because you can invade someone's privacy, does not mean you should
3.  Make your kids aware of technology and what people with bad intentions might do, given the chance; help protect your kids so they are not a victim of someone's cybersnooping

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Do your kids download free movies, ringtones or songs? You may get more than what you asked for. Cybercreeps hide their evil behind free downloads.

Do your kids download free movies, ringtones or songs?  You may get more than what you asked for.  Cybercreeps hide their evil behind free downloads.

Do you follow Celebrity news of actors, actresses, athletes, royalty?  

Does anyone at your home or office click on ads they see online?

If so, you or your kids or employees may be opening the door to cybercreeps and cybercriminals.


Anyone at your home following Lady Gaga on Twitter?  When McAfee, the internet security software firm, did a search in May for "Lady Gaga" on Twitter, they were led down a dark path of pornography and other adult animated content.

Got Justin Bieber fans in your house?  If your kids went to YouTube on July 4, they were redirected to porn sites.

Cybercriminals love to hide their evilness behind music and movie sites.  According to McAfee's report, especially behind "free" downloads.

When the word "free" is added to the search for music ringtones, there was a 300% increase in the riskiness of sites returned by your favorite and popular search engines.  Think Google or Bing.

McAfee's report called "Digital Music & Movies Report:  The True Cost of Free Entertainment" also noted that fan clubs have ads that may be hiding malware.  Not to be left out, YouTube and Twitter also had malicious code hiding behind links and comments when it came to fan clubs and celebrity news.

"It is fairly common to find multiple fan sites built by cybercriminals with the express purpose  of attempting to corral traffic to sell ads or infect users." Source:  McAfee Report.

It is estimated that roughly 7% of the websites providing unauthorized content, such as a free movie that should not be free, are directly linked to known cybercrime organizations.  

Even sites like the New York Times and Yahoo! Inc have had ads with malicious code sneak through their processes.  This is called "MALVERTISING".

How They Trick You:
The sites look very professional
Some sites give you a free trial period
Once they are in your computer, they may "FINGERPRINT" your computer by capturing your  software versions and other pertinent information that can be sold to 3rd parties. 

5 Easy Steps to Protect Yourself:
Keep your browsers and antivirus software up to date

Think twice or avoid clicking on links or ads altogether.  If you are really interested, go to a search engine, type in what you want to look at plus the word, "scam" and see what pops up before you click.

Tell your kids to avoid using the word "free" when searching for something and have them ask you for permission to download files to the computer

Only download music, ringtones, and movies from commercial companies

When in doubt about a company, check with your Better Business Bureau

Sources:
San Jose Business Journal, "McAfee: Digital music, video cyberthreats growing", Elizabeth Kim, September 14, 2010.

McAfee Press Release, Business Wire, September 14, 2010.

McAfee Report, "Digital Music & Movies Report:  The True Cost of Free Entertainment", by Paula Greve.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Question I get from Parents - Is My Kid Ready for Email?

I get a lot of questions from parents asking if their kids are "old enough" for email.

See the WBTV video with Kim to see how she handled this situation with her daughters:
WBTV Video on Email & Kids


Consider this:
8 hours a day!  And we’re not talking about your work day.  We’re talking about the time your kids spend surfing the net, on a smartphone, TV or electronic devices.    Your kid also wants their own email account but is this smart or even safe?   

According to the recent Kaiser Family Foundation study, kids 8 to 18 spend almost 8 hours a day connected to devices.  That’s a lot of connectivity.  Then your kid asks you for their own email account, is this safe & should you let them have one?   

It’s become a rite of passage for your kids.  Changing their fashion or hairstyles, listening to new music, and getting their drivers’ license.  All things you went through as a kid but there’s a new twist to growing up now…getting that email account!   

Under a certain age, I know parents want me to tell them “No!” and use me as the bad guy but I think email can be a good way to test responsibilities with your kids.

Before you answer “yes” consider these points:
1.     How mature is your kid with communications with others when they are happy, sad or mad?  Internet email might not be a good fit for them.
2.     How old is your child?  Many email providers have minimum age requirements – you should not lie about their age to get them their own account.


    If you decide to say “yes”, I have 4 quick tips to keep your kids safe:
    • ACCOUNT NAME:  Choose an email that does not identify their name, age, gender


    • RULES:  Discuss ground rules about appropriate email communication; discuss the perils of cyberbullying, sexting, and sending pictures via email; the rule of “don’t talk to strangers” also applies; teach them to be wary of clicking on links in emails


    • ATTACHMENTS:  Tell them not to open attachments without consulting with you first.  Kids are notorious for clicking on all kinds of sites online and then sending infected attachments.


    • REVIEW:  Tell them you will be reviewing their emails regularly and to make sure their friends know the email account will be monitored.






    Thursday, August 12, 2010

    New Facebook Bug Invades Your Privacy...Again

    Does the title of my post sound like a repeat?  New bug, repeat problem - privacy issues.

    The Facebook community learned this week that a new bug at the login point to Facebook will reveal names and photos -- even if you have locked your privacy settings down tightly.

    Here is how it works:
    1.  Someone logs into Facebook using your email address & they guess the wrong password
    2.  Facebook displays a screen that tells them to try the password again and displays the picture you have on file and the name you have put on your profile

    This is a treasure trove of information that cybercreeps and cybercriminals can use.

    The bug is now fixed but this is a friendly reminder to do the following:
    1.  Go to your Facebook account and choose "Preview My Profile".  What does it say about you?  Does it say anything you would NOT want a cybercreep to read?

    An example might include:  You may not want to list your full birthdate, including year

    2.  Check your privacy settings to make sure they are set to the level you feel most comfortable with.
    You have a lot of settings to choose from and can lock down information to just "friends", or "friends of friends" or you can go wide open

    3.  Review any pictures you have posted - do they identify you in a way the compromises you to fraudsters?  Are you giving too much identifiable information about your children and their schedules?  Are you providing too much information that could be used for social engineering?

    4.  Go to your favorite search engine and type in "your name, Facebook" to double check.  Do the same for your loved ones.

    You can stay on top of the latest security and privacy issues by tracking Facebook's security page and the page updated by Sophos.

    1.  Security Page on Facebook

    2.  Sophos Security Suggestions for Facebook

    As always, I'm open to questions & suggestions.

    Friday, July 9, 2010

    Intern Guest Post - Kanthimathy palani Velayutham - Growing Up Digital

    Research Outline
    Topic: Kids and Online safety
     
    Date: 07/09/2010
     
    Research by:  Kanthimathy palani Velayutham
     
    TEASER/TITLE: “Growing up Digital”
     
    SUMMARY PARAGRAPH:
    Technology offers extraordinary opportunities for all of society including children and young people. The internet allows for global exploration which can also bring risks – the online world paralleling but in some ways also diverging from the offline world, and video gaming offers a range of interactive experiences to children, but some of these are designed for adults. However, the generational divide between parents and children when
    it comes to new technology often means that adults are less clear about their role in enabling children to manage ‘virtual world’ and online risks in the same way that they manage risks inherent in the offline world.
     
    KEY FINDINGS :
    ·      Cyberbullying – Rates of cyberbullying increased with age including students in grades 4-8, teenagers, middle school students, etc.
    o   In a survey of 1500 students, it was found that 42% have been bullied, 35% have been threatened, 21% received mean or threatening e-mails or other messages, 43% of U.S. teens experienced some form of cyberbullying.
     
    ·      Trafficking - According to United States State Department data, an estimated 600,000 to 820,000 men, women, and children are trafficked across international borders each year
    o   approximately 70% are women and girls
    o   up to 50% percent are minors.
     
    ·      Gang recruiting – Parents are concerned, and should be, about kids being recruited by gangs as early 4th, 5th and 6th grade. Most children do not wish to join but many admit they feel pressured to do so.
    ·      Addiction – Individuals who are addicted to technology find it difficult to control the amount of time spent online and their time spent surfing the web significantly interferes with their daily lives, ability to work or go to school, and social relationships.
    ·      There are still relatively unknown social impacts of texting vs. talking vs. in person
     
    RECOMMENDATIONS
    ·      The Technology Industry should provide additional measures such as reporting of suspicious behavior on the internet and constant vigilance of activities online.

    ·      Parental supervision is strongly urged. 

    o   Actions should include:  (1)  blocking access to several sites on the internet, (2)  monitoring the kids when they spend time online, (3)  putting a time limit for children who are addicted to internet, and (4)  using tools and software to block harmful content.

    ·      Digital literacy education, which includes educating children about the pros and cons of technology, should be implemented as early as 4th to 6th grade.

    ·      Reduce availability to internet

    ·      Restrict access to gaming, porn and social networking sites

    ·      Increase resilience of children to gangs, bullying, and other dark side activities of the net

     
    BACKGROUND
    Internet dangers come in many forms of children.
     
    I am highlighting a few of those dangers.
     
    BULLYING: Victims of bullying are often fearful of telling others about being bullied because they fear that the bullying may actually become worse if they tell.
    •  40-50% of victims are afraid of telling others that they are being bullied.
    •  Victims of cyber bullying are often also afraid to report to adults about being cyberbullied, as they also fear that adults will over-react and take away their mobile phone, computer and/or Internet access. This is something that is increasingly unthinkable for the “Always On” generation as not being online means not being able to socialize or communicate with their peers, and this fear of exclusion is paramount in the lives of most adolescents and teens.
     
    TEXTING AND KIDS: Text messaging was intended to be a good thing. After all, it's quick, relatively cheap, and private. On a train for instance, text messaging isn't nearly as annoying as talking on your cell phone.  However, there are also negatives to text messaging.

    The primary negative to text messaging, in my opinion, is a safety issue. Messaging while driving a car is even more dangerous than talking on the cell phone.

    • 56% of teenagers admit to talking on their cell phones behind the wheel
    • 13% admit to texting while driving.
    • In 2007, driver distractions, such as using a cell phone or text messaging, contributed to nearly 1,000 crashes involving 16- and 17-year-old drivers.
    • Almost 50% of all drivers between the ages of 18 and 24 are texting while driving. Many states have made talking on a cell phone without the use of a head set while driving a phone illegal. 

    INTERNET ADDICTION: The internet addicts are more likely to have a more severe degree of depression than their casual web-surfing counterparts.
    • David Greenfield found that 5.7 percent of those who participated in a survey met his criteria for compulsive Internet usage. He believes that “the psychoactive nature of the Internet” is expressed by addicts who experiences time distortion, accelerated intimacy and decreased inhibition. He admits that “there is something strong and powerful” about Internet addiction, and that most affected areas seem to be marriages and relationships.

    GANGS TARGETING KIDS: There are more than 20,000 gangs, with collectively over 1 million members in the United States. Gangs are present in all 50 states, the District of Columbia, and all U.S. territories, according to the Attorney General’s report to congress on the growth of violent street gangs in suburban areas.
    Gangs, like organized crime rings, have taken to the Internet as a facilitator in sending messages to associates throughout the U.S. and other countries – including deported gang members, deliver threats, assert territorial boundaries that used to be scrawled as graffiti across buildings, fences, and signs, brag, and conduct ‘business’. Gang business includes drug trafficking, human trafficking, prostitution, weapons trafficking, smuggling illegal aliens across borders, murder, theft, fraud, armed robbery, auto theft home invasions, gang rapes, and more.
    Gang recruitment has stepped up in regard to use of the internet technology. Gangs are using Myspace, Facebook and Youtube as a means of recruiting kids.

    TRAFFICKING AWARENESS: Websites like Craigslist and Facebook have been hotbeds of child trafficking around the world, allowing one of the world's most heinous crimes flourish virtually unchecked. Craigslist has been under fire by law enforcement officials across the nation almost since its inception due to the effortlessness by which it connects sex offenders to its victims.

    There are many contributing factors that are leading to the growth of child trafficking. One main cause of this pandemic is stemmed from the sex entertainment industry. Many victims of human trafficking are forced to work in this industry or prostitution. The primary factor is the demand for pornography from pedophiles and others who are constantly craving more. Some consider pornography the number one driver of child sex exploitation. Oftentimes, children are forced to act out scenes in hard-core movies for paying customers.
     
    ANALYSIS:
    There are measures that adults can take that will help children grow up to be responsible internet citizens.
     
    CYBERBULLYING WARNING SIGNS: Cyber bullying may be conducted by sending phone text messages, images and emails, as well as through online discussion groups and personal web pages. Cyberbullying involves the use of information and communication technologies to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior by an individual or group, that is intended to harm others.
     
    Cyberbullying, like other forms of bullying, is about human relationships, power and control. Those who bully others are trying to establish power and control over others that they perceive to be “weaker” than them. Those who bully want to make victims feel that there is something wrong with them, but victims should know that there is NOTHING wrong with THEM. It is THE BULLIES who have the real problems. Cyberbullying does not provide any tangible feedback about the consequences of using information technologies to cyberbully others. Cyberbullies do not have to own their actions, as it is usually very difficult to identify cyberbullies, so they do not fear being punished for their actions
     
    Another negative to text messaging is that it's so impersonal and a tool of choice for cyberbullies. Unfortunately, some people carry it to such an extreme that it takes the place of other contact such as the phone or in- person conversation.

    INTERNET OVERUSE WARNING SIGNS: Internet use might drain your brain and sap away your time, but those who prone to bad feelings and deep depressions may actually be looking to the internet for solace and fulfillment. The links to social media sites, gaming groups can provide isolated and ostracized individuals with the kinds of connection, belonging, and sexual gratification that may be missing in their everyday offline lives. The sense of satisfaction that comes along with these internet indulgences likely feeds a negative cycle where more time spent online means less physical activity and less social contact, increasing the vulnerability to depression.
     
    IMPLICATIONS:

    HOW TO PREPARE CHILDREN TO BE GOOD DIGITAL ADULTS: Using technology for learning in ways that are relevant, meaningful, challenging, safe and hands-on is not an easy task. It requires a rethinking of curriculum and pedagogy as well as the spatial and temporal boundaries of education. It necessitates a reevaluation of learning in areas of engagement, individualization, and collaboration. Schools are continually updating their curriculum for digital literacy to keep up with accelerating technological developments. This often includes computers in the classroom, the use of educational software to teach curriculum, and course materials being available to students, online. 

    • Nearly 700 sixth graders at Stevenson Middle School Stevenson will be given new netbooks that serve as a fully functioning mobile computer smaller than a laptop, to use both at school and at home. Parents also will be trained in how to use and care for them and to provide online educational resources.
     
    Besides engaging with technology, parents and teachers need to build more constructive relationships with children. Open dialogue, which requires a level of trust between adults and children, seems to be the key tore solving many issues surrounding the use of technology in schools today.
     
    Digital, connected technology is important in our daily lives, whether it is a teenager accessing her social network on MySpace or adults using communications tools as part of their jobs. Most of us cannot imagine a world without computers or the Internet.

    Digital tools will not have a real impact on teaching and learning until educators build more genuine relationships with both kids and technology. Only if we create both can we genuinely prepare our children for challenges of the 21st-century world.
     
    RECOMMENDATIONS:
    • Talk to your kids:
    • Children should be reminded regularly to never give out or share their passwords, personal information such as phone number, address, personal identification numbers (PIN), etc.
    • Children should be taught to question and not believe everything they read online.
    • Children should never send a message to others when they are angry
    • Young people don’t have to be “Always on”. They should be encouraged to turn off, disconnect, and unplug, at least for a while.
    • Awareness and education are the keys to the prevention of cyberbullying!

    SOURCES:

    ·      http://www.cyberbullying.ca/pdf/Cyberbullying_Article_by_Bill_Belsey.pdf
    ·      http://innovateonline.info/pdf/vol3_issue4/Schools,_Children,_and_Digital_Technology-__Building_Better_Relationships_for_a_Better_Tomorrow.pdf
    ·      http://southasia.oneworld.net/todaysheadlines/safeguarding-children-from-cyber-threats/?searchterm=
    ·      http://ezinearticles.com/?Child-Slavery---How-the-Digital-Age-Has-Created-New-Opportunities-For-Child-Traffickers&id=4356556
    ·      http://abcnews.go.com/WNT/story?id=2886482&page=1
    ·      http://ilookbothways.com/2010/06/14/gangs-use-of-the-internet-and-cell-phones/
    ·      http://www.smh.com.au/executive-style/management/the-use-of-digital-media-comes-at-a-price-20100615-yby6.html
    ·      http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/digitalnation/virtual-worlds/internet-addiction/
    ·      http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/783729/the_negative_effects_of_text_messaging.html
    ·      http://www.160characters.org/documents/SocialEffectsOfTextMessaging.pdf
    ·      http://www.girlsaskguys.com/Behavior-Questions/88026-text-messaging-vs-phone-calls.html


    Fun to Follow on Twitter

    I am so blessed to have so many great people to learn from at work, home, in my family, and in Twitterspace.

    I hope you find these people as interesting to follow as I do!

    Fun to Follow!

    Cybersecurity, National Security, Safety of You or Kids Online
    @burgessct
    @momsmaterial
    @insiderthreats
    @cybercrime101
    @intel_chris
    @hidemyip
    @rootnl2k
    @co2hog
    @catinflorida
    @hidmyip
    @hostexploit
    @WOTN
    @PvtShuttDetach
    @nigroeneveld
    @cybersafety808
    @isa_808
    @kevinfunnell
    @wireheadlance
    @lukika
    @missiledetadv
    @gregWhoward
    @usmcdog
    @808COP_retired
    @infragard808
    @someguynamedpat
    @meowatthesun
    @heykim
    @littlebytesnews
    @freedom4usa
    @cybersafefamily
    @safetyweb
    @kakroo
    @gtiadvisors
    @anthonymfreed
    @pranheim
    @justice1776
    @flags_usa
    @militarydotcom
    @georgevhulme
    @elyssaD
    @cybercrime101
    @liviaweb
    @teksquisite
    @paperghost
    @stratcon

    Media with Integrity
    @WBTVKristenM
    @almacy
    @scottstanzel
    @tonyfratto

    Women Trailblazing About Kid Safety!
    @crisclapp
    @oaklandctymoms
    @marykayhoal
    @wiredmoms
    @rebeccanewton
    @privacyprof
    @micheleborba
    @lindacriddle
    @suescheff
    @googlebombbook
    @awaythrough
    @janebalvanz
    @theonlinemom
    @spectrumpestinc
    @momsmaterial

    Social Media / SEO / And Fun On the Internet
    @SteveAkinsSEO
    @PJPuppyMom




    Thursday, July 8, 2010

    SUMMER INTERN GUEST POST - Kevin Elrod - How Can You Protect Your Children Online?


    Topic:  Kids and Online Safety
    Research by:  Kevin Elrod
    Date: 7/08/10

    TEASER/TITLE:  How Can You Protect Your Children Online?

    SUMMARY PARAGRAPH
    The information world has seen tremendous technological advances within the last decade.  Now, with the internet available on almost all mobile devices, we can connect to each other anywhere at any time.  These technological advances are not without their dangers, however, as can be seen in the numerous cases of cyberbullying and ‘sexting’ in recent headlines. With the on-going advances in technology, we must do our best to make the younger generations aware of the ever-increasing hazards of growing up in a digital world.

    KEY FINDINGS
    ·      Information security is critical because anyone in the world can access your home address, credit card numbers, and other essential information
    ·      Online reputations must be managed with care in order to insure future job opportunities
    ·      In a survey conducted by i-SAFE Inc. during the 2003-2004 school year, 53% of kids admitted to being involved in an instance of cyberbullying

    BACKGROUND
    Throughout the 1980’s having a personal computer was considered a luxury.  Today, however, owning a computer is considered a staple for almost every household across America.  With the internet reaching critical mass during the 1990’s and the recent advances of web access in almost all mobile devices thereafter, information is more accessible than ever.  The younger generations have had to adapt to these technological changes from an early age, and it is safe to say that not all have acquired safe habits when browsing online.  Many children do not realize exactly how much information they are handing out when visiting certain websites or chatting with random people.
    Much of the dangers of the internet lie in social networking sites such as Facebook and Twitter.  Last year saw the biggest boom in social media websites, and now 110 million Americans currently spend an average of an hour a day visiting these sites.  Anonymity plays a major role when it comes to online profiles because anyone can create them with ease.  This provides the breeding ground for such dangers as online predators and cyberbullying.  Children who are unaware of these dangers may fall to prey, and their reputations and even their lives could be in serious danger.

    STRATEGIC PLANNING ASSUMPTIONS
    ·      Social networking is carrying over onto mobile devices with rapid progression making information even more accessible than ever before.  According to a survey conducted in the UK by Mobile Media Metrics, people on average spent 45.2 minutes a day accessing Facebook through a cell phone as opposed to accessing the same site 32.4 minutes a day through a PC.
    ·      With the average social media user having 128 friends/followers we are beginning to build more professional and recreational connections online than in real life.
    ·      With the anonymity provided through the internet cyberbullying is becoming increasingly widespread due to its natural cycle – kids who are bullied later tend to display cyberbullying behavior without considering the consequences.

    ANALYSIS
    Part of the plan to make the internet a safer place for kids is to teach them safe online habits at an earlier age.  According to the Online Safety Technology Working Group (OSTWG) a growing importance of “media-literacy” and “online citizenship” is what is needed to guarantee kids practicing safe online habits.  They stress that instead of focusing on certain dangerous content, we need to perceive youth as active citizens of the internet who can be both view and create its content.  In order to be a responsible “citizen” of the web, young people must understand that everything they put on the internet will be seen by others.  Keeping your private information private is one of the best ways to insure your protection against online predators and stalkers.

    Another way to become an honest “citizen” includes knowing how to behave on social networking websites.  We need to make our youth aware that an increasing number of employers are beginning to look at social media websites to gain information about their future employees.  This is one of the easiest ways for a young person to damage his or her reputation at an early stage.  Of course, cyberbullying has also been a trending topic in recent years due to growth of these networking sites.  Hateful messages, bashing, and death threats are just some of the things that are being sent to and from children over the safety of the web.  These hateful acts can have drastically negative effects on a child’s self-esteem, confidence, and sense of security.  Although most people choose to ignore such acts when they see them, action must be taken if possible to prevent any further cases.

    RECOMMENDATIONS
    ·      Make kids more “media-literate” by teaching them safe online habits at an early age
    ·      Make young people aware of the fact that employers have begun glancing at the online profiles of their future employees.  CBS news recently did a report on this trend and described an internet company called Ziggs where people can create online business profiles which come up first in most internet searches.
    ·      In cases of cyberbullying save the evidence and talk to a trusted adult about the problem
    ·      Get to know a child’s online world by having him/her show you around the sites he/she most frequently visits
    ·      Teach your children how to behave respectfully online.  Tell them that everyone they connect with on the internet is a real person with emotions and that they should be respected just like the people they interact with in real life
    ·      Learn how to use Facebook’s new simplified privacy settings at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YxIdtOHs2YE&feature=player_embedded

    SOURCES

    Friday, April 23, 2010

    What You Can Do to E.N.D. Cyberbullying


    1 in 5 kids ages 12-18 has admitted doing something wrong online.  
    Is your kid one of them?  
    Are you wondering what they did?  

    20% of kids 12-18 told a recent survey they had cyberbullied someone.   
    Phoebe Prince and Alexis Pilkington are the most recent victims of cyberbullying.  If you have a kid in high school or college, they have probably been bullied and have not told you about it.  

    In one survey conducted by PEW Internet and Life Studies, 72% of teens reported being bullied and 90% of them said they did not tell an adult .

    I recently talked with 3 students attending Queens University in Charlotte.  All 3 of them had friends who were victims of cyberbullying.  They had no idea how to help their friends or that the cyberbullies were breaking the law.

    See our interview here:  Charlotte's CBS WBTV Interview.

    North Carolina recently joined other states in anti cyberbullying efforts.  NC House passed a law last year, House Bill 1261, which makes Cyberbullying a criminal offense punishable as a misdemeanor.

    The House Bill is posted at:  http://www.ncga.state.nc.us/Sessions/2009/Bills/House/PDF/H1261v4.pdf


    Cyberbullying is real and has consequences.  Just as you teach your kids self defense against teasing or fighting, you can adopt 3 steps to END bullying.

    How to E.N.D. Bullying
    1.    E:  Educate & encourage your kids to come to you if they are being bullied online
    2.    N:  Network with other parents and discuss cyberbullying and alerting each other if you see it occurring
    3.    D:  Do block the cyberbully online and on your kids’ phone and report them


    Take this Cyberbullying Awareness Quiz - You May Be Surprised at the Results: 
    1.  If my kid is a bully, cyber or physical, it is not an indicator that he or she will have problems later in life.

    Answer:  False.  According to research cited by ILookBothWays.com, nearly 60% of boys who researchers classified as bullies, in middle school and their early high school years, were convicted of at least one crime by the age of 24.

    2.  Most victims of cyberbullying tell an adult (parent or teacher) about their experience.

    Answer:  False.  In a recent study by PEW, high schoolers and college kids did not tell an adult.  Several said it was because they did not want to lose online privileges!

    3.  Cyberbullying is mostly happening by boys to other boys.

    Answer:  False.  Both boys and girls are being bullied online. 

    4.  Which of the following can be considered "cyberbullying"?
    A. Harassing text messages
    B. Posting mean web messages
    C. Sending or posting embarrassing pictures of someone else without their permission
    D. Threatening someone on MySpace, Facebook, or another site
    E. All of the above

    Answer:  E.  All of the above

    5.  You should not call Law Enforcement if someone threatens your kid’s safety online.

    Answer:  False.  You should call the police if someone threatens your kid’s safety, asks for a face to face meeting, or asks your kid to do something that breaks the law

    “No Bully Zone”
    Ask your kids to refrain from bullying others and ask them to tell you if someone bullies them.

    Have a family discussion asking your child to alert you if someone is mean to them online.  Promise them you will not overreact and that you will decide together how to handle it.

    HOW TO BLOCK THE BULLIES: 
    Social Sites:
    If the bullying is occurring on MySpace or Facebook, contact those service providers.  They have handled complaints of bullying before and may be able to remove the offensive remarks.

    MySpace:  http://faq.myspace.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/42
    Facebook:  http://www.facebook.com/help/?topic=reportabuse

    Cell Phone:
    If the bullying is occurring via text messages, talk to your cell phone provider about blocking the bully’s address.

    Email:
    If the bullying happens via email, most email services will allow you to block a specific email address.

    Signs that Your Child May Be a Victim of Bullying:
    ·      Your child becomes withdrawn.
    ·      Obsession with being online or offline that does not match usual patterns.
    ·      Compulsive secrecy about their phone and email messages.

    Suggestions for Your Kids’ School:

    ·      Inquire at your kids’ high school and college if they have a zero tolerance bullying policy; ask them to include cyberbullying.
    ·      Ask & Encourage the schools to teach the concept in the classroom about how to spot and report cyberbullying.

    Other Resources:

    1.   Say No to Bullying:
    2.   Stop Bullying Now:  http://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov/kids/
    3.   Online Safety Tips:  http://ilookbothways.com/
    4.   Cybersafe Family:  http://cybersafefamily.com
    7.   A Way Through:  http://awaythrough.com/
    8.   Sue Scheff:  http://suescheff.com
    9.   National Crime Prevention Center:  www.ncpc.org 
    10.                 Statistics on Cyberbullying:  http://www.cyberbullying.us/research.php
    11.                 Information about what to do if your kid is a victim:
    a.   www.Cyberbullying.us